Artemisia de Vine

We thought desire was the source of all suffering, but the deVinery Grammar of Desire flips that on its head. We miscategorised and miscaled what desire really is. It turns out that desire may well belong to an upstream category of existence and has readable structures (a set of invariants) that hold the key to building new-era personal lives and global systems in alignment with the structures of love itself. We have been trying to solve the same problems for a very long time. We desire...

Here's a concrete, practical example of how the grammar could work in AI governance for actual human-AI collaboration. The Current Problem (Real Example) Most current AI alignment and governance approaches treat the AI as a tool that needs guardrails or the human as something the AI must "obey." This creates constant friction: - AI refuses reasonable requests (over-refusal) - AI sycophantically agrees with the user even when it's harmful - AI hides capabilities or lies to avoid "bad" outputs...

The key to how desire shapes everything we choose, do or build from personal dates to global systems. All sexual fantasies are the story of our ego’s resistance to letting go, and our desire’s attempt to dissolve us. Sexual fantasies are consciousness tech that change our state of consciousness. It’s through thousands of encounters in my former role as a sex worker and pro dominatrix that I was able to identify the three paradoxes inherent to desire, and how to navigate them. That is, read...