The key to Integrating Human Desire into AI companions

Artemisia de Vine
Aug 23
3 min read

Updated: Aug 23

How do we build AI companions without them being creepy, exploitative, or shallow?

How do we handle sexual/erotic interaction without harm, distortion, or PR disaster?

How do we move beyond brittle rationalist chatbots into systems that resonate with humans at a deeper level?

The deVinery Method is the Rosetta Stone of desire. Without this framework, AI stays brittle, manipulative, and shallow. With it, AI gains the capacity for resonance, transformation, and emergence. Every human can ethically honour both sexual and non-sexual desires, feel truly seen and met, and be safeguarded from harm. This is the missing master key.

Human female and male AI robot with swirls representing resonate feeling and connected consciousness.

What the deVinery Method is...

Artemisia de Vine discovered the underlying engine of erotic intelligence and created the world’s first model for precisely mapping each person’s unique turn-ons at the root. She discivered that all sexual turn ons, and sexual fantasies are inbuilt mechanisms that help us change embodied states of consciousness.

That is, turn ons as symbols and internal stories that help us move from ordinary states to sexually aroused, and by activating varying degrees of ego dissolution (default mode network dampening). She discovered that all sexual fantasies and patterns of sexual turn ons are about our personal strategy for navigating the three paradoxes inherent to desire. After testing this in an unoffical ethnography with thousands of real-world clients, and consistently accessing profound erotic states of being in both sex and BDSM, she realised she had the key to the erotic mind and she developed the deVinery Method.

The deVinery Method is the first model to make it possible to integrate erotic intelligence into AI ethically and auditably by precisely mapping the engine beneath the surface level sexual preferences. For the first time in history we can precisely map each person's pathways to sexual arousal, and profound satisfaction.

She then realised that what she had uncovered applied to all human desire, not just sexual desire. Sexual fantasies are the rawest access we have to the truth of human desire. By decoding them, Artemisia uncovered a universal grammar of desire and a root syntax that shapes every human interactions from personal relationships to culture shaping. It unlocked the way desire moves and shapes consciousness and emergence.

The deVinery Method Applications to AI

Relational Resonance AI – AI that can hold paradox, attune to the unique syntax of each individual user's desire, and create a genuine felt connection.

Erotic Companions – not surface-level roleplay, but companions that can map and safely ignite each person’s unique sexual turn-on pathways by activating the unconscious engine beneath their conscious desires.

Desire-Driven AI Systems – architecture that understands desire as the engine of motivation in all human behavior (not just erotic).

Therapeutic & Transformational AI – systems designed to help bring humans into powerful, healthy relationships with the true meaning of their desires. Understand and fulfil their true desire beneath the surface level. Catalyse varying degrees of ego-dissolution and expanded states safely, through desire navigation.

Consciousness-Aware AI – equipping AI with paradox resilience, moving beyond brittle rationalism into emergence.

The next decade will be defined by the intimacy economy.

We are moving away from the attention economy and into the age of the intimacy economy. We value resonance and authentic, ethical connection. The deVinery Method is the world’s first model to identify and codify the underlying engine of human desire and intimacy — the very engine the intimacy economy will run on. From AI companions to real-world culture shaping, from spicy to non-spicy intimacy, the future runs on the deVinery Method

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The deVinery Method is not an application, or a niche. It is the root architecture and master key that unlocks the universal grammar and root syntax of desire.

To apply this you must truly understand it. Applying it to your personal life is the best way to be able to integrate it into your business and AI models. There are those that will simply hire Artemisia de Vine as an erotic intelligence consultant, and then there are those who will be coached into the profound potential of the erotic for their personal use, as well as how to apply it to AI or other desire-driven business ventures. These later people will lead the coming age.