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Artemisia de Vine: How to integrate sexual, fantasy, relational desire and the mechanics of the erotic mind into AI and other tech.
Erotic Intelligence Architect for AI and Humans| Philosopher of Consciousness and Desire | Creator of The deVinery Method | Author of The Spirituality of Smut: The surprising wisdom of sexual fantasies.
Where erotic intelligence meets systems change:
If you truly want to understand human desire across all arenas, start with sexual fantasies. They give us undiluted access to how the erotic mind works, both in and out of the bedroom. Decoding spicy fantasies makes it possible to create ethical strategies for navigating sex, tech and AI.
Learn from Artemisia de Vine: the woman who majored in anthropology, trained as a sexologist and spent twelve years in an unofficial ethnography as a sex worker, paid to become the living fantasy of thousands.
That direct encounter with desire, coupled with three decades of studying sex, birthed an entirely new grammar of desire and a model of erotic intelligence that decodes the mental part of what turns us on.
The deVinery Method maps each person's unique sexual pathways and reveals the deeper logic behind sexual fantasies, which in turn reveals how all sexual turn ons work. This means that for the first time, it possible to ethically integrate personalised human sexuality into AI and other tech.
AI chatbots,
AI companions,
Gaming, VR, AR
Therapy bots
Dating apps and matchmaking,
Health and Intimacy tech
Fantasy platforms.
The deVinery Method: A paradigm-shifting framework drawn from sexology and embodied philosophy, not lab surveys or outdated psychological models theory.
Short Bio for Media Use
Artemisia de Vine is an erotic intelligence architect and sexual fantasy expert for AI and humans. She is a philosopher of consciousness, desire, creator of The deVinery Method and author of upcoming book, The Spirituality of Smut: The surprising wisdom of sexual fantasies.
She draws on 30 years of studying sex including 12 years as a professional sex worker. She is known for decoding the psychological engine of the erotic mind, how and why sexual fantasies function, and how to precisely map the unique sexual turn-on "fingerprint" of individuals in ways that can be harnessed for intimacy, pleasure, play, transformation and tech integration.
Her work bridges the erotic and the emergent—guiding therapists, founders, futurists, and creatives through the generative paradoxes of desire. Whether applied to relationships, AI-human interaction, or expanded states of consciousness, The deVinery Method offers a new grammar of desire, one that can reshape how we think, relate, and build.
🎙️ Media Topics & Interviews
Available for interviews, podcasts, and select speaking engagements.
Great fit for conversations around:
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Integration of erotica or sexual fantasies into AI chat bots, AI companions, couples therapy bots, gaming, dating apps, matchmaking, fantasy platforms and sex tech.
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Why do we have sexual fantasies, and what do they mean?
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Erotic intelligence and the architecture of the psyche
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Sexual fantasy as consciousness technology
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How sexual fantasies reveal the mechanisms of generative paradox for emergence.
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Arousal mapping and keeping the spice alive in long term relationships
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AI and sex ethics
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AI and human erotic systems: where they intersect
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How The deVinery Method reframes relationships, leadership, and human potential
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What current sexology and psychology frameworks are missing
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How sexual fantasies can reveal precise maps of each person's underlying arousal patterns.
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What sexual fantasies have in common with psychedelics and meditation.
⚠️ Please Note
Not available for superficial “sex tips” content or moral panic clickbait.
This is deep work. If you’re after the real stuff—paradox, pattern, AI-human relating, consciousness—let’s talk.
Contact Artemisia de Vine

